Emerson Carnavale Washington Stake President
In our home, when our kids ask us thoughtful questions that require some pondering, we frequently ask them to do their own research and present their findings in a family home evening. During that family home evening, we discuss their findings and add our thoughts to theirs. It is always a great discussion. My oldest daughter, Ana Elisa, asked a question this past week that resulted in an assignment to answer the question, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” She did such a great job that I would like to take some of her thoughts and use them for this message.
Most of us have already figured out that life isn’t always fair, and when sad and traumatic events happen, we often feel alone, singled out, angry, and hopeless. Some of us even go as far as questioning everything that we have done that might have led us to that unfortunate moment. We play the “what if” game--What if I had done this instead of that? The outcome of this game is either one of self defeat and low self esteem, or we seek to explain these events by placing blame on another. Either result can be very devastating to our physical and spiritual well being. So why must we suffer through these events?
Consider the example of Esther found in the scriptures and how dramatic events shaped the life of this amazing personage in the scriptures.
Esther had the awful tragedy of losing both of her parents at an early age. She was then raised by Mordacai, and they both lived in exile as Jews among the Babylonians. Although the Jews were granted freedom, most remained in Babylon. These early tragic events in Esther’s early life led her to later on becoming the queen of Babylon. As the queen, she also risked execution when she confronted the king to plead for her people’s lives. Esther is known as a symbol of courage, righteousness, and love for her people. Losing her parents probably brought much grief and sorrow to the young Esther. At that time, she probably did not understand why such a horrific event had to happen. But that event, amongst others, led Esther to eventually becoming queen and saving her people.
The example of queen Esther is repeated many times in the scriptures. These tragic events have led to amazing miracles. I am sure none of these individuals enjoyed these challenging moments in their lives. They must have felt much like we do when we are found in those sad moments. However, I am hoping that by understanding that trials and tribulation are the Lord’s way to mold us into what he needs us to be, that we may learn to live by faith and hope. Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf quoted Steve Jobs, Apple Founder, when he said: “You can’t connect the dots looking forward,” he said. “You can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.”
When we are going through difficult times, it is hard to see the purpose or reason for such pain. However, at some point in our lives, we will be able to look back and understand exactly why those painful events had to take place.
Brothers and Sisters, none of us will go through mortality without experiencing pains and challenges. Unfortunately, some will endure more than others, and if that is you, please know that my heart is filled with love and compassion for you. We are all on this journey together, and this journey will be better when we are able to help each other along the way. Our Savior Jesus Christ NEVER abandons us. He knows and understands all that you go through. Be patient and filled with hope and trust in the great plan of redemption and in the wisdom and love of our Heavenly Father. As Elder Holland said: “Trust in God and believe in good things to come.” And good things will always come!
I love you Brothers and Sisters and long for the day when we will all be able to meet together again. Pres. Carnavale
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